Hvorfor det er så viktig å sette seg mål

Uten mål kommer man ingen sted…SURPRISE!!! 😉

Det er som å sette seg inn i bilen og ikke vite hvor man skal kjøre – da vil du kjøre for alltid… Eller, nesten enda verre: du vil ende opp på et random sted i det bilen går tom for bensin (hehe, just been there, done that..)

Sånn er det med andre ting også: med livet, jobb, skole, ferier, hva du ønsker å gjøre, hva du ønsker å oppnå og hvem du ønsker å være. Hvordan forventer du å komme noe sted om du ikke selv veit hvor du vil??

Jeg har vell egentlig alltid satt noen mål, sånn som de fleste, men starta egentlig for første gang å skjønne hvor viktig det faktisk er da jeg var ferdig på skolen. Da var liksom de karakter målene over: det å nå et konkret snitt for å komme inn der jeg ville på vgs, eller da jeg først starta å jobbe: mål om å spare nok penger for å dra på syden ferie sommeren etter.
Etter vgs, og det obligatoriske som bare alle gjøre, så ble alt liksom mye friere, og målet ble neste automatisk bare ”det vanlige” – ingen som ba meg om å sette mål utifra mine drømmer og hva jeg egentlig ønska. Nå handla det om å få utdanning, finne jobb, kjøpe hus, bil, hytte osv. Ingenting i veien med det – men, det er jo så mye mer man kan gjøre, man må bare sette mål å være konkret på hva man vil!!

Hvilket liv vil du egentlig ha? Hvordan skal hverdagene dine se ut? Ukene dine? Året ditt?
Jeg hadde aldri tenkt på å sette så konkrete mål ifht livet mitt. Føltes litt som at livet bare kom, og ble som det ble, bare go with the flow, liksom. Og det gjør det – om du ikke setter mål og bestemmer deg for hva du skal gjøre og ha 😉

Ved flere tilfeldigheter (hvis du tror på tilfeldigheter) så ble jeg mer og mer oppmerksom, og lærte mer og mer om det å sette EGNE mål. Og har blitt utrolig klar over dette og konkret! Hvorfor??
Fordi jeg gang på gang ser at det fungerer, det er bare snakk om tid.
20182211_1628010920565474_130330841_o
Fikk bare lyst å dele dette akkurat nå, fordi jeg akkurat har fått ut fingern, og gjort noe som har stått på lista mi i flere år: Starte å hoppe fallskjerm, og få fallskjerm lisens!
Jeg er noen få hopp unna å ha det i boks, og jeg bare elsker det!! Har vært så utrolig kult, utfordrende og masse nytt å lære. Pushe grenser og bevise for meg selv at jeg kan!
20205815_1628010770565489_1899742044_o
Nå er drømmen er å ta med hoppinga inn i den livsstilen jeg allerede har, som også starta som et mål for 6-7 år siden: kunne jobbe og reise! Nå er det: jobbe, reise og HOPPE!!
19867063_10158979428125164_139929156_o
Så sett mål!! Vit hva du vil ha, vær konkret, sett dato og tid på målet ditt. Tro på det, tro på at DU kan gjøre det, bestem deg – ha en plan på hvordan – og det er bare snakk om tid før du er der!!

Ingen mål er urealistiske, det er TIDEN for å nå målet som er urealistisk 😉 – Berit

Continue Reading

Who cares about what you have to do…

If you came across an idea or business that would give you exactly what you want in life if you just did the work.. Would you really care about what the job was?? Or how many hours you would have to put in??  15585127_10157940161655164_4206900228794285993_oWho cares what you have to do, if it means that you can live your dream !  ..AND at the same time have FUN, get new friends, develop yourself, travel, start to live life on your terms and spend more time on what’s important for YOU! Feel free to get in contact for FREE Business information <3 Berit

Continue Reading

Mind your own business

It’s very easy, in life in general, to get the habit of always meaning something about what others are doing, and how they are doing it. If you’re one of those who are always sticking your nose into others businesses, you should become aware of this, and stop it. The reason is: There’s a big chance that this habit will destroy you, the way you look at yourself and your potential in life… Why?
– You start to compare youself with others.
– You start to compete with others.
– You start to worry about others problems.
– You start to judge and talk about others.
– You loose focus on your own business, on what YOU’RE doing and what you already have.

Why you should stop doing this, and how to turn it in to something positive
– First of all, when you compare yourself and where you are in life with others, it will make you feel like shit. Why? You will most likely compare you with someone you look up to, your idol, and compare your beginning to their middle… You forget the fact that they have once been where you are today, and it’s just the matter of time before you get there aswell. When you forget this fact, you will feel that you’re so far from where you want to be, and that you’re failing. So, just stop this NOW and instead, start to see the progress in you by comparing yourself with where YOU was one week ago, one month ago, one year ago! – and remember to enjoy the journey while working towards your goals !
– To be competitive is one thing, another thing is when you’re always trying to compete against others. It will bring you bitterness, negative feelings and you will start to wish for other people to fail. People really need to realise that there is more then enough out there for EVERYONE. You don’t have to compete, become better, or replace anyone to win! The only one you should ever compete with is yourself, to become a better version of you.
– About worrying: the best is ofcourse not to worry at all! Most of the things we worry about will NEVER happend, so worrying is a waste of energy. But, if you end up worrying, atleast spend that time and energy on YOU. What’s the point of worrying about what others are upto, and their problems?? It will only bring you one thing: STRESS! Unless someone pays you to worry for them, I suggest that you deside to stop it, and put your energy into something productive instead.
– I like this quote “Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.” Stop discussing others! It won’t lead to anything positive, and it’s a waste of time as no one cares about your opinion anyway.. If your life is that boring that you can’t find anything else to talk about then other people – find a hobby! Get up to something! Create your own life! So when you meet your friends you can share experiences and stuff you’ve been doing, instead of talking behind peoples back..
– ..And, just stop judging. There is a story behind every person and happening that you know nothing about. Remember “The rumors you hear about me, are as true as the ones I hear about you.”
– When you’re so interested and focused on what others are doing, it’s very easy to loose focus on your life, and to forget what you already have. You watch what THEY HAVE, and the only thing you can think of is that YOU need the same, so you can become as successful and happy as them. Start to look at others as an inspiration instead. Learn from them, pick up ideas and thoughts, and qualities they have that you want to develop and become better at. And always remember to stay focused on YOU. Remember to be grateful for what you already have. Remember how lucky you are, remember all the great people in your life, and remember all the qualities you already have within you.

Live your life, focus on being the best YOU can be. Focus on your progress and the positives in your life. What others are doing – let it be their business.. It will bring you peace, positivity, a better feeling about yourself and better results in whatever it is that you are working towards. – Berit wisdom-quotes-eleanor-roosevelt-quotes-gossip-quotes-Ops2Zz-quote

Continue Reading

What do you need to succeed?

People have many ideas about what they need to become successful in life. I used to think that I needed a nice office, an expensive nice car, the right clothes, the newest phone and all the other things that seem to be important for everyone out there.. Then I realised, there is really only ONE THING you need to succed…
imageYou need YOURSELF. Thats it.
I have realised that the most important thing for my success is ME. I need my health, a good mindset and to take action EVERY SINGLE DAY to get where I want to be.

I have realised this by pushing my limits. I’ve been travelling around in Asia while building my online business for over 4 months now – with only this small backpack, my Ipad and my schedule/idea-book. It’s not about what you have or your surroundings – it’s about YOU.

Changing focus has really made a difference for me. And I believe it will do the same for you. Start to focus on YOU, take care of and love yourself – and whatever you want to achieve, doing this will bring you closer.
-Berit

Continue Reading

Be a Tim..

image
I really don’t understand why everyones trying SO HARD to fit in and to be liked and accepted. Everyone wants to look the same, be the same and do the same??
If you’re happy doing that, thats ok, keep doing what you’re doing!
But so many are not, and still, they continue on with their lives doing the same day in and day out. Why? I guess because that’s just what everyone else does, right 😉 ? Hehe

It’s a bit funny, but I find it sad at the same time. People stay unhappy just to please others. To fit in.

Whatever you do in life, people will judge you ANYWAY! People will always mean something about you, and what you’re doing. Or what you’re NOT doing. Doesn’t matter, it will always be SOMETHING about you. Or if there is nothing about you, people will most likely make something up to have something to talk about.

The last year I have learned that if you want to be happy, you have to stop pleasing others – and do what you want and what is right for you.
Be a Tim – Don’t give a shit 😉 And be happy! :)

– Berit

Continue Reading

What story are you telling yourself?

imageWhat is holding you back from living your life to the fullest? To reach your full potential??

When I have had no progress in my life – it’s always ME, and ONLY ME!!, standing in my way!
Me, and the bullshit I keep telling myself – “this is not for me”, “I can’t do this”, “I don’t know enough”, “I’m not the right person”, “I don’t have what it takes”, “What will other people say”, “What if I fail?”, “I don’t have the right qualities” Blablablaaaaaa BULLSHIT!

Get rid of all these thoughts! Stop telling yourself all these BULLSHIT STORIES – they are stopping you from getting where you want to be!

I have one GOLDEN RULE for my self-talk:
– Only tell yourself what you would say to your friends.
If you told your friend “nah, don’t think you can finnish that master degree, you should just quit.. ” – Do you think you would have many friends left?? I don’t think so!!
Fix your self-talk, start being nice to yourself, appreciate all the good qualities you have instead of focusing on the negatives – Believe in yourself the way you believe in your friends. MAGIC will happend!!

Have a great Monday <3 And today, and everyday from now, start to tell yourself that you are AWESOME and can accomplish whatever you set your mind to!! No more Bullshit! 😉

-Berit

Continue Reading